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The more you think about God, the more you want to reach God, and the more you think about reaching enlightenment – the more will you become sexual in nature. And this happens to all saints or people who dream about becoming a saint!

I participated in one of the Internet surveys, and was astonished to find the fact that that most people who browse porn sites regularly are very religious in nature! It is a ratio that is directly proportional to each other – the more the sexual you are, more the religious you will be, and more the religious you are, more the sexual you will become!

I always had this doubt about the possibility of total ‘celibacy’. And also will total celibacy really lead you to enlightenment? I have tried all the possible techniques - from mantras to tantras. And the revelation was – if you are a normal human being with normal erection, with normal semen counts, and with normal dietary discipline – you cannot live without sex, or without letting the semen out for more than 3 months at a stretch! After that you either will have sex, or you would masturbate or it will flow out automatically in your wet dreams!

I have come across a lot of content where they speak about transforming sexual energy to spiritual energy. It surely is possible – but nothing can be done about the physical form of semen. It will come out – either you wish or you don’t wish. May be you can transform your sexual thoughts into divine – possible. But nothing can be done to evaporate the liquid – it will keep flowing down. Not only me – I have spoken about this to many saints – and they agreed to what I said.

Recently I happened to meet a saint in Chennai. He isn’t that famous as of now, but will become big soon. Hence mentioning his name won’t help much. He is one of those saints who speak to Shirdi Sai Baba everyday. Also he is one of those saints who has seen, touched and spoken to God in physical form. After my 3-hour long chat with this unmarried saint, I asked him, so what do you do for sex? He replied coolly – like we eat when we are hungry, so is our sexual needs. It flows out when it wants.

I read about another incident where our own Swami Vivekananda put his penis on a burning hot rod to get rid of his erection. But his teacher said, you need not do that. Sex is both a psychological need and a bodily need. So don’t worry too much. Just think more about God and less about women & sex– your problem will be solved.