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November 26, 2007
Your wife could be your soul mate!
Right from college days I had been a storehouse of porn content. It was magazines in college days, and when technology developed and I started working in branded firms it was porn CDs. One fine day one of my friends was pressurizing me to get some good CDs from home. I was wondering why all of a sudden he is pestering me so much, when he always knew it was easy to get them from me. In fact for him it was a matter of promotion, his boss wanted to watch few CDs in a week’s time, and the reason was – his wife had gone to her mother’s house, and he wanted to enjoy life in her absence!
It is admirable on the boss’s front that instead of hiring few striptease dancers or sex workers at home in his wife’s absence, he went only for some virtual fun. But what I failed to understand was – why was he hiding porn from his wife? And what was wrong if he had included his wife in watching the CDs together?
It is true to some extent that women usually don’t enjoy porn, but then it not true completely. There choice of porn is different. Explicit content doesn’t give them a high – instead they like slow and steady stuff, which usually men don’t prefer. Instead of triple X CDs, they prefer double X where story is the base, and sexual content is shown in a more subtle way.
This is just an example of how Indian men hide their real self to their own wives.
I have instances where a husband prefers to have oral sex with her girl friend, but then refuses to do the same with wife. I asked him why? And he said – his wife might not respect him any more if he did the same with her! I found it a bit ridiculous – on one hand men get married for sex, and then refuse to indulge in it completely with wife – thus torturing himself, his wife and the whole relationship.
There are three important things you need to drop completely when you indulge in sex with anyone and they are – pride, ego and the thought of disgust. If you stick to any of these - your sexual life is ought to suffer.
There are many women who have lived, had children and died even without even knowing or understanding what sex really was and what orgasm really was. If men continue to have sex like having fast food, then many marriages are bound to break in future, as a wholesome sex is the fundamental base of any marital relationship.
Here are few tips to enhance your sexual life –
*see to it that your sexual act goes on at least for 1 hour right from foreplay to after play.
*include your wife/partner in drinks and watching porn stuff
*And share your wildest fantasies with your wife/partner – she will respect you more and understand you better
Posted by Kenni at November 26, 2007 11:21 AM
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