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Whoever fought against Child Marriages - like Mahatma Gandhi - themselves were married very young. Gandhi got married when 14 I guess. And also when Gandhi’s father was on his deathbed, Gandhi was busy having sex with Kasturba Gandhi. Of course he realized his folly later, but then he was subjected to an environment to realize that sex wasn’t the ultimate goal of life.

The people who fought against child marriages were never subjected to the sexual desperation a man or a woman undergoes during his/her teens or puberty. So what was the end result? People started indulging more in masturbation, homosexuality, preteen & unsafe sex! What if you had provided an environment conducive for sex, when the nature wanted people to do? I think things would have been better. (Banning child marriages have led to other socio-economic problems, which I will discuss in some other blog….)

Now that we masturbate more number of times than having sex with a partner, we might as well use this particular opportunity to grow spiritually…..

Don’t masturbate in a jiffy

The first few things to remember are never masturbate it in a hurry and also never masturbate when you are depressed or worried. You spend 5 minutes in a bathroom (in home or office) and in that 2 minutes you allocate for sex! It isn’t advisable!

Plan & Act

Osho says a sexual orgasm gives man the first glimpses of nirvana or enlightenment, then why not celebrate the same - akele hi sahi (nothing wrong in celebrating alone). Plan some particular day, when your people are not at home or when you can get good privacy - astrologically Fridays are best for sex. Borrow good number (4-5) of porn CDs, get your drink, and see to it you are not disturbed for at least 4-5 hours.

Porn & God

I am sure these days most houses have comps, which can play CDs. When you are watching the movie – DO NOT FAST FORWARD! Just keep watching – you will find few things exciting, and few things boring – but then keep watching. Watch them one by one. You can take breaks in between – like after one movie, distract your mind by reading something or watching some music on TV. Or you can pray for a while or meditate. The best is to have a God’s image next to you, after one movie is over – stare at your favourite God’s image. Your lust will immediately get transformed. Then again watch another movie – see to it that for 3 hours or so, you have reached the heights of lust – but haven’t masturbated as yet.

Shag & Leave

After 3 hours or so, start shagging, and whenever you feel like coming stop. Distract your mind again by a God’s image. You will notice that, whenever you have images of porn or image of some girl or some fantasy running in your mind, you feel like coming and when you look at God’s image, you won’t feel like coming at all. It will stop completely. If you reach this stage, you will understand that sex is more related to mind and not to body. Keep repeating this for 30-45 mns.

Celibate & Celebrate

When you are about cum, think about all the people whom you always wanted to screw in life – it could be your schoolmate, your boss, your teacher, your co-worker or your neighbour. And once you are through – thank God for the wonderful experience, and also thank all the women (right from the porn star to your co-worker) to have given you a wonderful experience.

If you do this sincerely, the number of times you masturbate in a month will automatically get reduced. And you will be able to have one ball of a time once in a week, with yourself. You will become more independent, and not drool for any kind of women. Your relationship with many will become smooth, and you will notice women getting attracted to you more.

Later start taking small vows – that you will have sex once in a week, then once in a month et al. Slowly you will come to understand that, sex is of course good, but then not having sex is a better feeling. Once you reach this stage, reaching God becomes easy.

Practice this for a year, and get in touch with me for further steps….