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December 07, 2005
How death checkmates life – Part 1!
It is almost 3 months my dad expired, and my sister is still trying to find the possible reason for his demise. Of course he had health problems since last 3 years, but then his sudden death could not be digested by her so soon. She tries to decipher - was it because the doctors didn’t tell us the seriousness of his health? Was it because he traveled a lot towards his death in spite of a weak heart? Was it because my mom delayed the night dosage of tablet by an hour? Was it because my dad sat in a full blast a/c car just 30 mns before his death? Or was it because my chart really had a bad combination for my father’s health? Had I not met my astro-spiritual teacher K Gopalakrishnan in the year 2002, I would have never been able to write this particular blog!
Most deaths always have a particular pattern. There are few important events that will take place before a person dies.
Travel associated with bad omens
It is said if you consciously give this final travel a miss you will become immortal - meaning you can escape death, and live forever. But destiny will force you to take this final trip, and it happens with most deaths. This final travel is different for all, but there are incidents of people going through the same trip if they are related to each other one or the other way. For instance Jawaharlal Nehru, Indira Gandhi and Rajiv Gandhi all gave their last speech in Bhubaneswar before they died.
My parents had a big fight just 20 days before the fateful event. My dad called my sister and also me, about what exactly he should be doing to solve the problems. Also the docs in Coimbatore had asked my dad to do a kidney transplant if the keratin level worsens. My sister asked my parents to come over and live with her for a couple of weeks for a change and meanwhile they can take a second opinion about the operation. All was good to hear, but my dad had taken the first step towards the journey of death!
Unusual meeting with known & favourite people
When a person nears his death he will be able to meet people he knew and people he loved the most - unusually. Like he might meet his old friend in a bus stop or may be he will get a call from his old flame.
Both my sister and I got married without the knowledge of my parents. My dad was dead against my sister’s marriage – because he didn’t like my brother in law at all. And I happen to marry my brother in law’s sister!
He never visited our houses after our marriage i.e., for 8 long years. For some 5 years, he didn’t even allow us inside his house. The last he came was the first time he decided to stay at my sister’s house for 20 days.
And this was his second step.
To be continued….
*Mending few relationships
*Manifestation of small desires
*Change in functioning of prana (breath)
*Final adieu when favourite people are around
Posted by Kenni at December 7, 2005 05:33 PM