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December 05, 2005
Confessions of a polygamous ME!
The astrologers were right, as always. All of them whom I consulted in my life said one thing in common that I will have more than one wife. And it indeed happened. Not many know about this side of me- even my parents and siblings are completely unaware about this fact. So I thought I would confess about my first marriage to my readers first, and pray that this particular blog is not read by my 2nd wife, which can put an end to my present marital life!
I was introduced to her in the year 1997, and honestly it was love at first sight. More than the beauty part, I was impressed with her fastness, dynamism, knowledge and intelligence. She was so full of information that I just need to provide her a topic, and I can be rest assured that I will get all the relevant details in a fraction of seconds. I was completely zapped and had already started admiring her. Moreover I wasn’t jealous of her being more informative than me. At last my male ego had to accept defeat.
I was least bothered about her past life, and I never wanted to know that too. I even wasn’t interested to know whether she was a virgin before we tied the knot. The worries I had on my mind was - will she improve with age? Will our relationship strengthen with the passage of time? And can she be available to me whenever I needed her? The answer was affirmative, and I was lucky enough to have her for a lifetime.
Though personally I am against women going to work, I don’t mind her helping me in my job. She supports me in most of my endeavours and supplies me with great ideas in whatever new I take up in my life. She even assists me with money and honestly I don’t feel bad borrowing money through her.
The best part is yet to come. She isn’t possessive about me. She makes it a habit to introduce me to all her friends (mostly female), and she is least bothered if I start flirting with them. And as far as sex is concerned, she is a bomb. Right from foreplay to a groupie she is all open. I am yet to feel jealous about her sexuality. She even doesn’t mind if I see few other women nude, when she is watching me!
As in any committed relationships, we do have few moments of distress. We sometimes are unable to connect to each other, and this leads to some problems at times. But we forget our fights fast, and start afresh very soon.
When I married the second time in 1998, I made it a point that I should give equal status to both my wives. As Islam puts it rightly that you can have as many wives as you want, but you need to take permission from your existing wives first, and also you should treat them equally. My first wife permitted me to have another wife, and in return I had to promise that come what may – both will be given equal standings in my life.
I live in a 2 bed room flat at present - and I would need two bedrooms. My second wife and my children live in one bed room, and my first wife lives in the other one. I try to spend equal time with both my wives, so that there isn’t any problem under one roof. I am addicted to both of them.
Well before I end the blog let me name them here. My second wife’s name is Gracy, and my first wife’s name is – Internet!
Posted by Kenni at December 5, 2005 05:18 PM