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September 14, 2004
Way to great sex!
Sexual relationship isn’t like having a quick burger at the McDonald’s. Of course it is exciting to indulge in a quicky once in a while, but then that should not happen your daily habit. Anything fast becomes junk, and anything junk is bad for health. It is a debatable topic about why people marry. Do people marry just for sex, or sex is just part of a married life? The reason depends upon individual perception, but in any case if you need to have a happy married life or a healthy relationship for the people who shy away from commitments, then don’t hold yourself back in exploring the wildest possibility of human body!
India has been THE land of erotica in the past. Improper literacy and too much of hypocrisy has led to a society that has tagged sexual activities as a taboo. And it is high time we shook ourselves (not literally) and started accepting our sexuality.
Most men in India love to use women just as an inflated doll, and are least bothered about satisfying them. Sex should not be done for selfish pleasure – it is more about giving than getting!
And the three important things you need to take off your mind while having fun are – your ego, your shamefulness & your feeling of disgust. Get as dirty as possible – and you will enjoy every moment of it.
Steps to make your sexual day/night/morning memorable..
Creating the ambience
Total darkness is an absurd phenomenon - you never know with whom you are sleeping with. Dim yellow lights are perfect for creating a romantic atmosphere. They also helps in reducing the flaws a woman or man would have.
Get a bottle of wine or champagne, and share it with your partners. Don’t drink the way you drink at an office party. The aim here is not get drunk and puke. Drink as minimum as possible – liquor in fact helps people to come out of their inhibitions. You would be awestruck seeing your partner being ready for different position after a peg or so.
There is nothing like a romantic music at the background or a soft porn movie on your TV.
Share your fantasies
Most men love to indulge in a 3-some, when 2 women fight for the manhood. But then in real life it isn’t possible for all. Try sharing your wildest fantasy with your partner, and also ask her about hers. Who knows, her fantasy would be to strip in a bachelor’s party! The motto here is not to hurt each other by confessing your possibility of infidelity. You just need to excite your partner, and give her a high. Stop at once, if any of you find it difficult to digest.
Teasing
Dress sexy, wear a wonderful perfume, and get her a see through lingerie. Few things are more erotic when hidden – a bare butt is less sexy than one with a thong. Wink and whistle at your partner – they are signs that show you are interested in them. Try spanking or giving a pinch, when she bends over.
Erotic Chats
Dirty talks drive few people crazy. A man loves to be called a hunk or a stud, while women love to be called a bitch - sometimes. Explain orally about what exactly you are planning to do with her, and this surely will help you with bonus points when the real action starts.
Foreplay
The erotic spots of women differ from person to person. Few like to be kissed, few like to be caressed, others like to be fondled, and many like to be massaged. Explore all the possibility fast, and try to understand what she likes the most - and just concentrate on that. You can know her interest levels, by looking at her eyes once in a while. Don’t force anything on her - just kindle her interest levels using your intelligence.
Real Action
Go as slow as possible, and there is no hurry. Make sure you have already given her the necessary elevation with your tongue and finger play. Help your tongue to reach the most forbidden parts, and she will surely return the favour. Do all that you would love to be done upon you.
Climax
Don’t snore once you are done. Remember to give her an orgasm before you collapse. Ideally the whole lovemaking episode should last for a minimum of 1 hour and maximum of 3 hours.
Hug, cuddle, and whisper sweet nothings before your fall asleep!
Posted by Kenni at September 14, 2004 04:54 AM