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How much ever we are educated, we tend to hatch shyness towards our sexuality and our own body. This shyness starts from the day a kid is laughed at or given a pinch when he/she starts exploring its private parts.

I had been to a marriage, and outside the hall a dog and a bitch were having fun. I dunno what went wrong with one of the persons who had come. He took a stone and hit them hard, and says, ?bacche dekhenge to bigad jaayenga (if kids see them they will get spoiled).? I got damn irritated, and wanted to blast him saying, ?the dogs are exactly doing what you did with your wife in a closed room to have that kid. Give your house to these dogs, if you don?t want them to make love on road.? Though I could not tell him that?because he had another stone in his hand, which he had not dropped as yet.

Sexual suppression leads to a lot of social crimes too. Parent?s first responsibility should be to make their kids comfortable with the concept of sex. Not that you make them see porn movies, but you can always deal with situations that doesn?t embarrass them.

I started shagging off when I was 13, and I thought it was only me in the whole world who does it. It took 8 years for me to understand that 99 per cent of men shag, while only 1 per cent don?t accept it. Men of course don?t stop helping themselves after marriage. Once started?there is no end. Research say 60 per cent women do the same dunno how many don?t accept it though.

This is about sexuality. People even tend to hide things that relates to their health. Most death due to breast cancer or vaginal cancer happens because women don?t open up to the doctors. Why? God knows! You aren?t blessed with a silver breasts or a golden penis. The flesh is the same for all...just that few have bigger protrusions and few have smaller, rest remains the same.

And the last is sexual dissatisfaction. Love, understanding, family, money, character, sense of humour? all sounds perfect, till you have a good relationship with each other on bed. If that goes for a toss rest comes down tumbling. 90 per cent of the divorces, infidelity, adultery and extra marital affairs happen due to discontentment in sexual relationship. Most people hate to talk about it to their partners or to the doctors, thinking they should not be giving much importance to sex ? and the end result frustration and disappointment.

I have started a yahoo group called http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mischievousmanifestations for women and couple who would like to share their views about sex, sexual activities and sexual problems. STAGS NOT ALLOWED THOUGH.

Mail me at kennedig@yahoo.com to get an invitation to join this club.

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