Your Friendly Philosopher & Guide

My sexual exploration started from the age of 3 ? when I took my LKG classmate (Kalpana) under the table to see what she had inside her panty! God knows why I did that, when I didn’t even had any intention or purpose at that tender age. Of course when I grew up the same act had many purposes, which would be termed explicit if discussed here.

I came across a fantastic book on sex when I was in my 8th grade “the modern techniques of sex”, which I read as religiously as possible. I should say that was the only book that I read more than any other books in life, which included physics, chemistry and zoology.

The book kept talking about everything about sex, sexual techniques, tips for safe sex etc, and the topic that interested me most was Orgasm in Women. It excited me because that was the heading I could not discuss with anyone and also could not experiment with. (Don’t tell me I should have experimented with Kalpana – it wasn’t possible because we had already shifted our house and also the school I studied in).

From books I graduated to porn movies. First X, then XX then XXX. The growth was gradual, and thankfully my journey stopped at movies unlike my other friends who moved a step ahead of visiting Chamiya Bars and having paid sex. I knew for sure I cannot sleep with a woman I don’t know neither could I sleep with a women who lies there as a rock expecting the man to complete the act. Any act or relationship, according to me, should be symbiotic.

I was already 21, and I still was searching for the answer. Do women really have multiple orgasms? And God answered my prayers. From the age of 22 – 26 five women entered my life who helped me to experiment and experience about whether women really are blessed more than men. And I got my answer.

In my experience, I can surely can say that women DON’T have multiple orgasms and the whole concept is a myth framed by few men who never bothered about women during the act of sex. Women have only 1 orgasm as any man do but it takes a lot of time. On an average a woman at least takes 20 – 45 minutes to get orgasm and by then the man is already through snoring beside her!

There are instances where women have delivered babies, lived their lives and died without even knowing what orgasm was all about. Delivering babies is like putting a switch ON. You need not know the fundamentals of electricity (orgasm) to put a light ON.

So guys stop being selfish when it comes to sexual game. Give as much as possible rather expecting too much, and also help her reach the plane, which she had been missing for lives now.

Please feel free to post your comments if you think I am wrong in my conclusion!

PS - Ever wondered why women are not shown to have gotten orgasm in any of the porn movies?